In this EPISODE, we studied the question “Do you have a beautiful vision for your family and are you inviting them to go there with you?”
This discussion was sparked by our listening to an interesting interview with Horst Schulze, former President and COO of the Ritz-Carlton. During that interview, it dawned on us that many of the principles of vision are universal for businesses, churches, individuals, and families.
We explored the three basic elements of a family vision:
Mark also shared his working vision statement for his family: “To instill a love of God, people, and truth by equipping ourselves with passions, resources, and habits that foster a pursuit of what is best.”
We encourage you and your family to explore these elements and work on your own vision. Be Abnormal!
We hope you enjoyed our Christmas Eve Special regarding traditions. Making significant memories with our children and creating ties to their heritage are crucial to preparing them for healthy relationships in the future.
While there is a lot of value of both tried and true traditions and new holiday memories, they all need to based on three basic concepts:
SECURITY – One of the basic needs of humans is to feel secure and safe. Intentional traditions help create an environment where children know they are loved and taken care of.
EXPECTATION – Not that we want to meet every expectation of our children, but we want to create a sense of consistency that helps our children know what to expect from us. This will help them also form that same view of knowing how to trust and expect good things from God.
CENTERING – We all need things that we anchor our lives to that are bigger than us and our own story. Traditions can be a great tool to tie our children’s lives back to the heritage of our family and the history of our faith.
A few ideas if you are trying to form new or rebooted traditions in your household:
ASK YOUR FAMILY – Seek out ideas from your parents and beyond to come up with great ideas to carry on the family traditions.
KEEP IT SIMPLE – Don’t try to be extravagant; be consistent.
MAKE IT FUN – Make sure that you laugh together this holiday!
One neat, classic resource we referenced was Shirley Dobson & Gloria Gaither’s Let’s Make a Memory. They have a lot of wonderful ideas on making memories and traditions during all different settings, including the holidays.
We pray that you have a wonderful time with your family this Christmas and make some great memories. We also pray that your lives can become increasingly centered on Christ and His Truth.
In this heart-focused EPISODE, we discussed the necessity of evaluating what’s inside our hearts to make sure we have the right behavior on the outside. Too often we get that backwards, but, as Jesus reminded us, our mouths speak from the overflow of the heart. (Luke 6:45)
Some of the foundational thoughts behind this episode come from Andy Stanley’s book. You can get it in it’s updated version – Enemies of the Heart – or in it’s original format complete with cool monster-movie references – It Came From Within!
We went through some basic steps to helping ourselves and our families evaluate our hearts:
ASK HEART QUESTIONS – Make planned times to lead our families to introspection.
IDENTIFY MOTIVES – Unveil the root issues behind behaviors and conflicts.
REMEMBER THE GOAL – We are wanting to develop people; not just stop behavior.
We’re so glad you checked out our podcast today. We pray that some of our ideas help your family to grow closer to Christ. We’d love to hear your thoughts, comments, or questions. You can leave those in the comment section of whatever platform you are receiving this information on. We also encourage you to share this podcast with others and write a review through your podcast app, so we can get the word out more!
In this EPISODE we talked at length about leading your family to know the Bible through Family Devotions. We looked at some models and schedules, discussed how to have grace and goals, and went over a LOT of resource ideas. Here’s some links to those resources:
D6’s parents blog SPLINK – a weekly parents guide for engaging your family in conversations and activities to develop faith in Christ.
The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones – A beautifully illustrated and incredibly written paraphrase of the Bible aimed to help those of all ages understand the epic story of Jesus that is woven throughout all the books of the Bible.
Bob Goff’s Everybody Always– A captivating memoir-type book that challenges us to give up fear and love the way Jesus does.
Making Brothers and Sisters Best Friends – Written by a set of siblings on how they rose to the challenge of having a Christ-honoring relationship. A wonderful resource for a household with several children.
How Happiness Happens by Max Lucado – Max’s take on how we obey all of the “one another’ commands from Scripture.
As we indicated in the podcast, these are just a few suggestions to help get you started. What’s really important is that you start regularly, intentionally getting your family together to seek God and apply His truth to your lives. So this week, make a plan and be abnormal!
This EPISODE is a review of the book Growing With by Kara Powell and Steven Argue. If you are in a position of influence over young people ages 13-28, we strongly encourage you to grab a copy of this book and look further into the concepts we highlight in this podcast.
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As for Growing With, the big overall standout to us was the book’s paradigm shift to lifelong parenting at different capacities through different stages. We don’t stop being a parent on our child’s 18th birthday, but our roles must shift in conjunction with their changing role. Here’s a general guide to what they say those roles are:
LEARNERS are adolescents age 13-18. During this period of development, parents need to be TEACHERS, intentionally helping their child learn and develop relational, vocational, and spiritual abilities.
EXPLORERS are young adults age 18-23. During this period of time, parents need to transition to GUIDES who reflect and point their children to progress as they investigate and explorer their life and possibilities.
And FOCUSERS are young adults age 23-29. During this life-stage, parents need to become RESOURCERS who are available with advice and experience when their child decides to seek them out.
We found Growing With a fantastic resource that we believe will help parents and others that work with young people continue the necessary conversations to promote growth into faith-filled, fully-functioning adults.
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